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Updated October 23, 2026
Getting married and already have a kitchen full of gear? Some couples skip the traditional registry and ask for help with a down payment instead.
FHA loans, and many other loan types, allow gift money from family and other approved sources toward the down payment and closing costs.
Here’s how to do it right.
How gift funds work
- Tell your lender early that part of your down payment will come from gifts.
- Use a separate account for gift deposits, so the money is easy to document.
- Expect paperwork: Lenders usually need a signed gift letter and proof of the transfer.
- Know who can give: Anyone with a financial interest in the sale, like the seller, builder or agent, generally can’t make a gift toward the down payment.
Not just for weddings
The same idea works for graduations and other milestones. A home fund can be a gift that keeps giving. Rules vary by loan type, so confirm with your lender. Read IRA Down Payments and start with the buyer questionnaire.
This is general information, not financial, tax or legal advice. Talk with your lender, CPA or attorney about your situation.
A simple plan for your gift funds for a down payment move
I’ve been helping people sell and buy homes across Minnesota, Wisconsin, and Florida for about two decades, and I build and remodel luxury homes too. I’ll help you see both what a property is and what it could be.
Getting the house ready, or making it yours
If you’re selling and want repairs handled before buyers see them, Super Crew Contractors can give you an estimate. If you’re ready for something custom, Ivy Lane Homes does luxury home building and remodeling. And a quick coverage check with Intrinsic Insurance before closing can save you a surprise. For the local picture, read my Chaska homes guide or browse neighborhoods in Chanhassen and Victoria.
Super Crew Contractors, Ivy Lane Homes and Intrinsic Insurance are owned by David Olson; you are free to use any contractor, builder or insurer.
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